Hi guys!
My mind is overflow with thoughts. So here I am writing this post to clear up my mind before I go to bed. Lately, I kept watching my archived IG stories which I decided to share some of my memorable moments there. Those happy moments that I decided to be engraved in my IG. I was looking at old photos/videos of mine with some people that I was close with before. But now, we are more or less like a stranger. I recon you, whenever I met them, I felt awkward because we don't have any common ground to talk about anymore.
I concluded, just like a story we read in books, our own life also has its own ending for certain chapters and to start with the next chapter in your life. Maybe, it is written that they only stay with you until those moments. Some might stay in your memory as happy moments and some were not. I suddenly having these thoughts and it's kind of nostalgic. No matter whether it was happy memories or not. Looking back, some things that we thought difficult to do became easy and even a norm to us.
We grow and learn from those experiences. Life teaches us good and bad lessons. It is up to us to take it as something positive or not.
Thanks for reading!
p/s: How about you? any thoughts about this?
-Nana ^^
when our chapter with someone ends, even their shadow fades. It's Allah's gentle way of closing doors meant only for a season. <3
ReplyDeleteIt is beautifully planned for us :)
Deletesuch a reflective post. life really does have a way of moving us forward, doesn’t it? it’s incredible how memories shape us, and how we grow from every chapter.... ;-)
ReplyDeleteI think that is how we grow. We learned from it, from the people we met whether it is in a good way or not.
DeleteThank 😊 you for sharing this. Sometimes a closed door is a sign for us to think 🤔 If we keep our heart open, ❤️ we will find an open door.
ReplyDeleteMy pleasure. It is. ^^
DeleteFeel you. Saya pernah ada beberapa sahabat sangaat dekat zaman sekolah. Tapi ntah kenapa hubungan kami berubah renggang saat kami kuliah di tempat berbeda. Even ketika ketemu lagi, terasa sangat kami dah menjauh. Tidak bisa akrab macam dulu.
ReplyDeleteSkr teman saya tak sebanyak saat sekolah, tapi yg ada skr, jauuuh lebih dekat dan lebih paham satu sama lain. Mungkin memang semakin berjalannya waktu, circle kita pun akan semakin mengecil ðŸ¤
Kan, semakin kita membesar, semakin kita sedar ramai kenalan tak bermaksud semuanya berkualiti.
DeleteSinggah sini kembali.
ReplyDeleteLinda biasa lone ranger,jadi takde terasa sangat kalau ada yang tiba² tak bercakap..sebab semua nya kita kawan biasa, no such a BFF...bikin pusing saja .kikiki
Betul. Hehehe, being alone doesnt mean that you will feel lonely. Kadang-kadang lagi pening nak layan orang. Lebih baik sendiri. ^^
DeleteSinggah sini juga..
ReplyDeleteMungkin dah terbiasa lone ranger, jadi gambar² memang sekadar kenangan pernah melalui fasa itu. Jadi takde episod terasa hati,life muat go on
This is very insightful, it truly shows that life is about experiencing new chapters and growth. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteExactly. Valuable life lesson <3
Deletebila tengok archive story tu rasa kehilangan diri sendiri je. haha beza betul dengan diri yang sekarang ni. dulu rajin betul update story. sekarang ni kalau update tu terasa berbeza. tak tahu kenapa
ReplyDeleteBetul. Kadang-kadang rasa macam seronoknya masa lalu. Tapi pada masa yang sama kita lupa untuk menikmati masa sekarang. ^^
DeleteThis was such a raw and honest post, thank you for sharing something so personal ❤️ Your words really made me pause and reflect on my own past friendships. I firmly believe that everyone comes into our life for a reason, whether that's for a chapter, or the whole book ❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading ^^
DeleteI feel you. Looking back, I couldn't believe how close I was to certain people in my life. But now, we only look at each other's lives through social media. But as people said, the best of the best people in your life is not the one you know for the longest, but it's the one that stays and is there for you in both your good and bad days. They stay.
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